Nicole Sachs remembers perfectly the moment she realized she was gay. It's okay. It's who I am.
Whenever my boyfriend asks me what kind of porn I want to watch, I usually say, "Two girls, one guy. Because women turn me on. To be clear, I am straight—but I've always found that watching two women in sexual situations is pretty hot.
There are also many reasons why a straight girl might start dating a lesbian—beyond the obvious cluster bomb of orgasms. Hear ye, hear ye, beware the real reasons straight girls date lesbians. Lesbians are equally capable of ripping your heart out of your chest and consuming it in front of you.
Below, 30 people recall the moments they knew they weren't straight. I also started having what I eventually realized was a crush on a girl at school. Being bisexual can be an odd experience, because it can be very easy to brush aside your own identity for a long time before realizing that you're capable of being in love with more than one gender.
In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. As kids growing up with all those crappy teen movies, we were conditioned into thinking that girl-on-girl action is just an added bonus of going to college. Unlike dudes, who tend to get completely ostracized or assumed gay from such behavior, we women are applauded and encouraged to experiment with other females.
O ver the years, Karen, 35, has established exactly what she likes when it comes to online porn. Three or four times a week, she goes in search of new videos in some of her favorite categories -- Big breast play. They were in bed, kissing and fondling each other.
This piece was originally published at TheLStop. Within every lesbian community there exists a tale as old as time, a proverb as common as it is contentious: Bi women cheat, betray, and ultimately leave — never for another woman, but for a man. Like those who flee the tumults of city life for quieter and less complicated pastures, bisexual women may seem destined, in the eyes of gay women, to trade the grit and hardships of queer life for the suburbs of heteroville.
What turns women on? This question has baffled men for ages. A groomed beard, a generous penis size, or a sexy cologne are all tried and true, but science has found something else that sexually arouses women — other women.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Why do I have these fantasies?